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How social technologies are extending the organization

One of the hot topics of conversation in business these days is how to effectively use social media for connecting with prospects and referral sources, and for promoting our work. We have all heard about companies leveraging social media as a tool to extend their networks, but how?

This article in McKinsey Quarterly, written by Jacques Bughin, Angela Hung Byers, and Michael Chui, deals with the benefits of planned and targeted enterprise-wide use of social media, we at IMPACT think it is extremely useful to start thinking about getting strategic about the social media game! 

 

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Harvey Schachter's article in the Globe and Mail gives three great tips to improve your listening skills.

As coaches, we cannot emphasize enough how important it is to listen, at different levels, to what is said and what is not said. This listening is the key to asking powerful questions- which is the best way to develop people, and to develop business.

Take a minute to give this a read, and think about how you can show others you're listening.

 

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From profitguide.com, Greig Clark shares his discovery: there are five fundamentals of running a successful business, and they live where the rubber meets the road. None of them are earth-shattering, but they can be tricky to apply.

 

What do you get when you spend 40 years in and around entrepreneurship? In my case, 10 black, three-ring binders are an important part of the answer.
Let me explain. I lived my first 20 years of self-employment as an entrepreneur, building College Pro Painters. I spent the next 15 as a venture capitalist, with a few of those years at the helm of Arxx Building Products, one of the investments in our VC fund. Since stepping down as CEO of Arxx five years ago, I’ve worked as (or, at least, evolved into) a “trusted advisor” to entrepreneurial businesses. And for each of the companies I’ve worked with, I’ve compiled a synopsis of each business in a black, three-ring binder.
 
I recently leafed through those binders in search of the best business lessons of my past 40 years. My discovery: there are five fundamentals of running a successful business, and they live where the rubber meets the road. None of them are earth-shattering, but they can be tricky to apply.
 
1. Focus, focus, focus
It’s easy to say, yet so hard to do. I recently read a book on the Facebook story, and this principle leaps out above all else. Facebook placed relentless focus on building a user base, campus by campus, and continually making the program friendlier. As wild as I feel for saying this, Mark Zuckerberg was right not to put short-term focus on raising revenue.
 
To put the importance of focus into greater relief, consider Paul Martin: a superb finance minister but a weak prime minister. In the former role, Martin focused like a laser beam on reducing the deficit and building surpluses. As prime minister, he dared not disappoint any people, so he ended up disappointing most people.
A CEO I’ve known for a long time told me that his biggest job is to be Dr. No. Only by turning things down does he let people know what really is important.
My brother Paul, a longtime entrepreneur who is now a consultant in Vancouver, tells me that the biggest problem he sees in business is that people start many things but finish few. “I’ll get to that next week,” they say. Next week never comes. His advice? “Complete something.”
 
2. Time management
It’s the kissing cousin of #1. We have two finite resources in any business: time and money. We budget the heck out of money. Time is even scarcer, but we treat it more shabbily.
 
How a CEO spends his or her time is the biggest signal to staff of what is really important to the company. A good technique for aligning your actions with your priorities is colour-coding your time planner with those priorities in mind. One of the CEOs I work with, Jeremy Behar of Cirrus Consulting Group in Toronto, knows good people are the key to the growth of his business. So, he shades hours in his day planner green to denote the time he will spend recruiting people or developing his existing employees. That way the task stands out visually to him.
 
Another trick is to be proactive, applying Steven Covey’s “put the big rocks in first” principle. Go through your calendar months ahead and mark some “green space” in every week to block off time to tackle your most important priority.
 
3. Horses for courses
Or, as Jim Collins wrote in Good to Great: “Get the right people in the right seats on the bus.” But how can you tell when you have the “right people?” It’s never easy. My first boss, Scott MacDiarmid at General Foods, used to tell me the thing he liked about me was that when he asked me for “A,” he got A or A-plus, and on time; he never got a B or C with an explanation. In business, table stakes is understanding what is asked for and delivering it. Greatness is taking it one step beyond that, being proactive and what I call a “life force” in the business. Someone who is an “energy multiplier,” not a drain. It is so great for entrepreneurs when they feel that they are “not alone” in trying to grow the business or push the envelope.
 
On the other hand, when the person is not right, you will know. But, like most entrepreneurs, you might be “slow to fire.” Don’t be.
 
4. Clarify roles
This is all about getting the right seats on the bus. Everyone needs to know what they, and they alone, are responsible for. The “one throat to choke” philosophy is still a good one, although perhaps a bit graphic. At Cirrus, a little box appears under each person’s name on the org chart, containing that person’s top three deliverables and metrics. This allows strategies and plans to be quickly checked against principles #1 and #2: do the tasks reflect the focus of the business, who will perform those tasks and how will anyone know those tasks are being performed?
 
5. Measure, measure, measure
Make those top three deliverables the key performance indicators for each manager. Put them on a one-page “dashboard” and review it regularly and relentlessly. An example is the weekly RAG (results at a glance) at College Pro, which remains that company’s most read report. When my stepson Jon was a star manager there, he used to check the RAG every day to compare his performance to his targets and that of his peers. When you get the numbers right, the numbers don’t lie—and everyone knows it. Good people will self-manage to make their numbers.
 
Are these principles simple? Yes. Easy to stick to? Maybe not. Tack this page on your wall, and consult it frequently. If you can’t follow this diet, find a coach or advisor who can help you. It works.

 

 

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Growing Your Book Of Business- Multiplying Scales

 

Accounting partners know how to multiply and divide. Unfortunately, they don’t always know what choice to make when it comes to growing their book of business.  Seth Godin’s simple example shows the clear choice.  I will borrow his language and his logic and tailor my example to the professional services firm.
 
Let’s say you have a list of 30 prospects (made up of current clients and other potentials with whom you haven’t worked yet but would like to).  You have a choice to make. 
 
1) You can create stories and options and benefits that naturally spread from this group to people they know, and your core group can multiply with 30 growing to 60 and then 600 (Some partners succeed in building a name for themselves by becoming a subject matter expert and becoming known through speaking engagements, writing etc.  It takes some great stories, options and benefits to make this work).
 
OR
 
2) You can put the original group through a sales funnel, weed out the ones that don’t fit your “ideal client” type and monetize the rest.  A 30% conversion rate means you just turned 30 prospects into 9 new engagements.
 
Multiplying scales.  Dividing helps you make this quarter’s numbers (and keep your equity partner status!).  We know you are great at math but let us know if you need some coaching help on this  equation.
 
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What’s Your Business Development Dent?
 
Seth Godin (known for his knack at getting to the heart of the matter) just sent out a two line post called Your Dent.  He asks “Are you making a dent in the universe?” and then hints: “lots of random pokes in many different spots are unlikely to leave much of an impact”.  And for a final kick, he adds “hiding out is surely not going to work at all”. 
 
In business development coaching, a few of the partners I coach initially prefer to hide out and magically think enough business will keep coming.  It might.  Or it might not. A few fall into the random poking category.  They can at least say they have activity.  They will likely generate some modest results.  Finally there are a few partners who strategize, focus and approach business development with discipline and an attitude of generosity and authenticity.  They are the ones that make the dent.  And because they approach their entire life this way, you can bet their dent is much bigger than the business bottom-line.  
 
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This is a great little post from Guru Marketer Seth Godin on how you can avoid the “better-than-them pitch” and make it easy for prospects to make a new decision (to retain you!).
 
 
The portion of the population that haven't bought from you or your competition yet is not waiting for a better mousetrap.
They're not busy considering a, b and c and then waiting for d.
No, they're not in the market. They don't believe that they have a problem that's worth the time and money they think it's going to take to solve it.
As a result, smart marketers don't market to this audience by saying, "hey, ours is better than theirs!"
If this group thought that they had a solvable problem, the would have solved it already.
No, they won't respond to a better-than-them pitch. Instead, they're much more likely to respond to a new statement of their problem and a new statement of the solution. Don't ask them to announce that they were wrong when they decided that they didn't need a tablet, a survival kit or an anti-impotence drug. Instead, make it easy for them to make a new decision based on new information.
 

 

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How to Keep Your Cool During a Performance Review

 

For the feedback providers among us, there is ample available advice on how best to proffer messages and to ensure their effective delivery. However, there's far less guidance to help us when we are on the receiving end of these "gifts" (after all, aren't we always hearing how feedback is a gift?).
 
The purpose of this post is to start a conversation among us, to consider how best to take in the feedback messages we receive — not just at this time of year, but all the time.

http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2012/01/how_to_receive_feedback.html?cm_mmc=email-_-newsletter-_-management_tip-_-tip041812&referral=00203&utm_source=newsletter_management_tip&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=tip041812Written by: ROBERT M. GALFORD

 
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Get rid of your vacation policy. Stop tying compensation to performance. Pay more to your people than the market demands. Drop the self affirmations and doubt yourself instead. Forget about annual performance reviews. And for goodness sake, pay more attention to your “To Don’t” list than your “To Do” list. Daniel Pink’s recently released Flip Manifesto (available gratis here) offers 16 pieces of advice that run counter to what you might have heard elsewhere and will certainly contradict how your own firm/ company is set up. This is precisely why it is worth the 30-45 minutes it will take you to read it. I liked it so much I have printed it out and highlighted it for a VP (R&D) I am coaching right now. I have chosen to use the paper and ink (85 whole pages worth) because I know he will never get to it if I send him the electronic version and I believe it is something he needs to read right now.

 

How about you? Is it time to flip some of your long held beliefs?

 

For more Daniel Pink, read his Pink Blog.

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Introverts Run the World—- Quietly

 

http://www.cnn.com/2012/03/18/opinion/cain-introverts-power/index.html?hpt=hp_t2

 

Susan Cain is the author of "Quiet: The power of introverts in a world that can't stop talking." A writer who formerly practiced corporate law and worked as a negotiations consultant, Cain spoke at the TED2012 conference in Long Beach, California. TED is a nonprofit organization dedicated to "Ideas worth spreading," which it makes available through talks posted on its website. Follow @susancain on Twitter.

 

 

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Wendi Campbell's fantastic advice was featured in this month's CA Source Newsletter. See the link above or read her article below!

Get the Most Out of Your Day

 

It’s easy to say there isn’t enough time in the day to get everything done, but the truth is that most of us just aren’t using our time efficiently. The first secret to time management is to take a look at the big picture and consider what will matter most to you five years from now. By focusing on what really matters, you take control of the clock and begin to manage your time for better results.
 
One of my clients is a senior manager who wants to make partner at his firm. When he got to the office each morning, he looked at his calendar and saw a sea of meetings — some of them double-booked. Then he spent his few open hours answering questions and coaching members of his team.  Since he focused most of his time on internal tasks he did not have enough time to reach out to his clients and network with contacts.
 
Schedule your objectives first
 
With e-calendars and workflow tools, it’s easy to let others muddle with your daily agenda. My client realized he needed to take control of his time— decide what he wanted to excel at and allocate his time accordingly. Just as financial planners say that the way to save money is to “pay yourself first,” the way to manage time is to “schedule your objectives first.”  
 
Frame your to-do’s as specific goals
 
When blocking time in your calendar, be sure to schedule specific objectives and connect the dots with your to-do list. Written to-do lists are an easy way to track and prioritize work.
 
Written to-do’s should have specific goals. For example, instead of, “Call Marlene at Crystametrics”, write “Call Marlene to set up a meeting about that new project.” Using this strategy, many of my clients  find they have more focus, decreased stress, and—as they cross things off their lists—more satisfaction.
 
Know your priorities
 
In Stephen Covey’s book First Things First, he offers a number of time management strategies, including how to prioritize your work by grouping it into four categories:
 
- Urgent and important items like client phone calls and staff retention emergencies. Deal with these things as soon as they crop up.
- Not urgent but important things like planning, business development, and technical reading. These items impact your achievement most, so spend the bulk of your time here.
- Urgent but not important items like internal meetings and staff distractions. Try to spend as little time here as possible.
- Not urgent and not important items like email shuffling and trivial work. Don’t waste any time with them.
 
Defend your schedule
 
Once my client had prioritized and scheduled his objectives, he needed to defend the time, so he told his team about his focus on building new business; explained his time strategy and asked them to help him stick to it; limited his open-door policy by setting specific times so his team would know when his door was actually open; and started checking his email and voice messages only once an hour. Sometimes he’d eliminate distractions by working in an empty boardroom instead of his usual workspace.
 
With these strategies, my client was able to take full control over his time and get the most out of his day.
 
 
 
How organized are you? Take this test at mindtools.com and find out:
 
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Wendi Campbell is a Chartered Accountant and an executive coach with Impact Consulting Inc.  Her coaching specializations are personal effectiveness, execution and implementation and engagement practice management skills.  Impact Consulting Inc. provides customized hands-on coaching and assessment services and has coaches located across Canada.  www.impactconsultinginc.com
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The Magic of Doing One Thing at a Time

 

 
It's not just the number of hours we're working, but also the fact that we spend too many continuous hours juggling too many things at the same time.
 
What we've lost, above all, are stopping points, finish lines and boundaries. Technology has blurred them beyond recognition. Wherever we go, our work follows us, on our digital devices, ever insistent and intrusive. It's like an itch we can't resist scratching, even though scratching invariably makes it worse.
 
Tell the truth: Do you answer email during conference calls (and sometimes even during calls with one other person)? Do you bring your laptop to meetings and then pretend you're taking notes while you surf the net? Do you eat lunch at your desk? Do you make calls while you're driving, and even send the occasional text, even though you know you shouldn't?
 
The biggest cost — assuming you don't crash — is to your productivity. In part, that's a simple consequence of splitting your attention, so that you're partially engaged in multiple activities but rarely fully engaged in any one. In part, it's because when you switch away from a primary task to do something else, you're increasing the time it takes to finish that task by an average of 25 per cent.
 
But most insidiously, it's because if you're always doing something, you're relentlessly burning down your available reservoir of energy over the course of every day, so you have less available with every passing hour.
 
I know this from my own experience. I get two to three times as much writing accomplished when I focus without interruption for a designated period of time and then take a real break, away from my desk. The best way for an organization to fuel higher productivity and more innovative thinking is to strongly encourage finite periods of absorbed focus, as well as shorter periods of real renewal.
 
If you're a manager, here are three policies worth promoting:
 
1. Maintain meeting discipline. Schedule meetings for 45 minutes, rather than an hour or longer, so participants can stay focused, take time afterward to reflect on what's been discussed, and recover before the next obligation. Start all meetings at a precise time, end at a precise time, and insist that all digital devices be turned off throughout the meeting.
 
2. Stop demanding or expecting instant responsiveness at every moment of the day. It forces your people into reactive mode, fractures their attention, and makes it difficult for them to sustain attention on their priorities. Let them turn off their email at certain times. If it's urgent, you can call them — but that won't happen very often.
 
3. Encourage renewal. Create at least one time during the day when you encourage your people to stop working and take a break. Offer a midafternoon class in yoga, or meditation, organize a group walk or workout, or consider creating a renewal room where people can relax, or take a nap. 
 
It's also up to individuals to set their own boundaries. Consider these three behaviors for yourself:
 
1. Do the most important thing first in the morning, preferably without interruption, for 60 to 90 minutes, with a clear start and stop time. If possible, work in a private space during this period, or with sound-reducing earphones. Finally, resist every impulse to distraction, knowing that you have a designated stopping point. The more absorbed you can get, the more productive you'll be. When you're done, take at least a few minutes to renew.
 
2. Establish regular, scheduled times to think more long term, creatively, or strategically. If you don't, you'll constantly succumb to the tyranny of the urgent. Also, find a different environment in which to do this activity — preferably one that's relaxed and conducive to open-ended thinking.
 
3. Take real and regular vacations. Real means that when you're off, you're truly disconnecting from work. Regular means several times a year if possible, even if some are only two or three days added to a weekend. The research strongly suggests that you'll be far healthier if you take all of your vacation time, and more productive overall.
 
A single principle lies at the heart of all these suggestions. When you're engaged at work, fully engage, for defined periods of time. When you're renewing, truly renew. Make waves. Stop living your life in the gray zone.
 
TONY SCHWARTZ
Tony Schwartz is the president and CEO of The Energy Project and the author of Be Excellent at Anything. 
 
 
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Today is International Women’s Day. Canada’s 2012 theme for International Women’s Day is ”Strong Leadership. Strong Women. Strong World: Equality”

Be a leader today and take the time to do one thing for women today. The “one thing” you choose can be quite small. As we each do one small thing, together we have a big impact. 

Some suggestions? Help a friend with a difficult situation. Provide some guidance to a colleague. Volunteer at a charity. It doesn’t have to be hard.

Give your advice and support freely and unconditionally. Together we are stronger.

In honour of women worldwide, IMPACT supports Dress for Success. Helping just one woman, helps a whole community. If you would like to join us in our support click here: http://www.dressforsuccess.org/affiliate.aspx?sisid=70&pageid=1 to donate or volunteer.

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The CICA Women's Leadership Council hosted a webinar on the 7 Deadly Sins of Career Management, presented by Kathleen Grace.

One point which really hit home was not to shy away from risk as it can hamper career advancement.  Rather than worrying about making a mistake, think of it as adding to your education.  “Lessons learned are tuition not mistakes.” 

Reframe your mindset and accept that mistakes simply add to your experience.  Personal experiences, good and bad, are a big contributing factor in your likelihood to accept risk (and opportunity) in the future.

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Drew Dudley: Everyday Leadership

Despite how complicated leadership can seem at times, moments of leadership are accessible to all. Watch this 6 minute TED Talk and wake up to how you can make a difference in people’s lives.

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Network Night - A social evening where women can network

IMPACT Consulting's Jennifer Campbell is taking social networking off-line...  So, step away from the computer -- it is time for a girl's night out!

 

Join us for Network Nighta social evening where you will:

  • connect with new women while practicing your networking skills
  • relax and recharge in the company of cool, like-minded ladies
  • and learn the latest tips for “Keeping Your Career Fresh”!

Date: Friday, February 24th, 2012 - 7:30-9:00  pm
Location: Yellow Griffin Pub, 2202 Bloor St. West (at Runnymede subway)
 
Your $15.00 entrance fee includes a facilitated networking program, top tips for career success in 2012, snacks and beverages, plus a whole lot of fun thrown in!
 
Brought to you by Beth Yarzab and Jennifer Campbell, creators of the Reinvent Your Career workshop and business owners of CareerFit Mom / Action Impact Movement (and great friends, to boot!)
 
Space is limited and pre-registration is required via PayPal.  Please click here to register!
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Make it a social night and bring a friend!

Hope to see you there!
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Introverts are hot. Lately, thanks to a new book by Susan Cain titled Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, the quieter folks among us are having something of a moment in the sun. Here are some great tips for introverts to better thrive in the extroverted world of work.

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4 Tips on How to Win New Work

To many professional service providers, the concept of finding new clients and winning work is intimidating. Even the very term “business development (BD)” strikes terror in the hearts of some professionals. Among my coaching clients, the fear often comes from a mistaken assumption that to succeed in BD one has to be an aggressive salesperson.  This couldn’t be less true. So put away your fake smile and your clammy handshake.  These tips will have you feeling comfortable and improving your BD results in no time:

  1. It’s a marathon, not a sprint:  It may take multiple meetings and interactions via phone/email before you’re ready to propose your services or ask for work.  Simply focus on advancing your relationship a little each time you interact.  This takes the pressure off feeling like you have to land a big contract over lunch. 
  2. Meaningful conversations:  Sharing meals with prospective clients can help bring in good work. But the most effective business developers always make lunch more than a chit chat over chicken Caesar. Know what you want to achieve and plan some questions that will help you bring the conversation in that direction when the time is right. For example:
    1. What are you working on?
    2. What does success look like for you/your business?
    3. What gets in the way of achieving this success?
    4. What kind of help do you need?
  3. Talk less, listen more:  In 2012, it’s no longer about the aggressive pitch.  Instead, build a relationship and find common interests so you both win.  Have your prepared questions and also let curiosity be your guide.  When in front of the prospect, ask yourself what you’re most curious about and pose your questions from there.  Your lunch date will find it refreshing. 
  4. Let your prospect guide you when to ask for the work: It’s great to have lunches, drinks and conversations. It is also great to actually win work!  Each time you interact with a prospect, check in with them.  “What is the logical next step? Have I earned the right to propose on this work?  Can we start on this small project so we can solve this problem with you?”

For more on effective BD, check out Get Clients Now by C.J. Hayden.  Hayden provides an excellent 28 day plan that will get you into action and bring results. And remember:  It doesn’t have to be hard.  It could even be fun! 

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Don’t Let the Duds In!

Hand un-hooking a velvet rope.If you are like many of the professional services firm partners I coach, you are under ever increasing pressure to bring new clients to the firm, to deepen relations with existing clients and to increase firm revenue. You likely excel in your professional domain and struggle with business development (BD).   And even if you are good at it, you likely feel torn between logging billable hours and investing in BD. 

A few years ago, I wrote a post on how I was defining my target market and my niche.  To help me, I used a concept from Michael Port’s Book Yourself Solid.  Port recommends having a “red velvet rope policy” to help keep out unwanted clients and bring in only ideal clients.  Defining your ideal client and your red velvet rope policy is a necessary step in laying a solid marketing foundation for your BD success.  And it’s really quite easy (and arguably fun!):

  • Describe your ideal client (be as detailed as possible):
    • Who have you loved serving in the past? What kind of company? What kind of file?  What kind of people were you dealing with? What did you like about the work? 
    • If you were bringing in only ideal clients (for your practice area or the firm in general), what characteristics would they need to possess in order for you to do your best work for them? Be selfish! Assume you will only work with the best of the best. 
  • Describe your dud clients (again be as detailed as possible):
    • What kind of past clients have turned you off/ shut you down/ had behaviours or issues you couldn’t tolerate? What kind of clients/ files should not be getting past your “red velvet rope”? 

Once you have a clear picture of your duds and your ideals, look at your current roster of clients and categorize them as ideals, duds or neutrals.  Port challenges you to fire the duds to open you up to working with only ideal clients.  In theory, I really like the notion.  In practice, I believe most of my coaching clients would rather phase out the duds and target their BD efforts on bringing in ideal clients.  

Well...your ideal clients are waiting.  How about getting clear about who they are so you can find them?!

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Dress for Success - Make a Difference Campaign

As a friend of Dress for Success Toronto I would like to invite you to support our first annual "Make a Difference" campaign.
 
Our organization provides disadvantaged women support on many fronts, including professional dressing services, career development support through mock interviews and our career centre, participation in our Professional Women's Group and mentorship programs.  Providing these important services requires more than clothing contributions. Your donation can make a profound difference in a woman’s life. 

  • $50 provides one woman access to our suiting services
  • $100 provides one woman access to our suiting services & job search support through our career centre
  • $200 provides one woman access to the whole suite of Dress for Success Toronto programs
  • $400 provides two women access to the whole suite of Dress for Success Toronto programs
  • $1000 provides five women access to the whole suite of Dress for Success Toronto programs

I am humbled daily by the amazing women I meet that have benefitted from Dress for Success. I’d like to provide you with a quote from one of our successful Dress for Success participants…

 “A suit will last a year or two but it’s the lessons and support we receive that will last a lifetime and help us become successful in our lives and career.   Dress for Success was a driving force in my career development.  This is about more than just suits; Dress for Success was a part of my survival.”

Helping even one woman means families & the community benefit directly!
 
Click here to join us in our Make a Difference campaign and make a meaningful difference in a disadvantaged woman’s life this holiday season. Any donation amount is welcome.
 
Thanks & warmest regards of the season, 

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We are proud to announce that IMPACT coaching expertise and advice will be featured in a column called “The Coach’s Call” in CICA’s CareerVision newsletter (found on the CASource website). Our first article was published today: http://www.casource.com/memberGlobal/initViewArticleAction.do?id=107061.

Enjoy and stay tuned for the next issue.

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7 Tips to Help Your Coaching Experience Succeed

In this article from the Globe and Mail, the author outlines 7 common pitfalls people fall into when entering into a coaching engagement.

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Posted by Claire Carver-Dias on November 29, 2011

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What I have learned about RFPs

  1. I will only do an RFP if I really know the organization well and have a reasonable chance of success due to my relationships.
  2. RFPs are a massive amount of work and are often not read by the senior decision makers.
  3. Understanding the decision process is key. You need to know who is reviewing and deciding at each stage.
  4. You have to work with all of your relationships as well as complete the paperwork or you will be wasting your time regardless of the quality of the submission.
  5. RFPs are counter to idea generation. If you want ideas, you need to start with an openness. RFPs by their nature are exceptionally defined.
  6. RFPs are slanted to big expensive consulting businesses who have teams dedicated to writing RFPs.
  7. If you are small, like us, and you want to respond to an RFP, you need to be innovative and take risks. Be prepared to give them what you think they need not what they ask for.
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From the Vancouver Sun:  Management technique designed to promote 'culture of inquiry,' improve how people interact

Read more: http://goo.gl/0ZbkU

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on October 17, 2011

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I seem to be stuck on this concept lately. Maybe because I am getting older. Maybe because I own my own business and have flexibility to decide what I will work on and what I won't. Whatever the reason, I feel the need again to express how important purpose is -- in everything you do. 

Purpose comes from within and it is unique to each and every one of us. Purpose is why you do what you do and it is what gives your life meaning. Purpose is  doing work you love and getting better at it, helping people, seeing people develop or making a difference. Purpose is not "meeting plan". 

As I work through As I work through a "mega" proposal to do a huge piece of work, I get unfocused, I get frustrated, I get refocused. I am tired. 

Late yesterday, I somehow rediscovered my purpose. I had temporarily misplaced it as I waded through "mega" proposal to do a huge piece of work for a client. I was trying to figure out how to do what the client asked for. Then I realized, “I just can’t own this. It won’t work and I don’t want to do the work as defined.” After many iterations last night, my purpose allowed me to refocus. I rewrote the proposal, again, made the work much smaller and focused on what IMPACT is good at and what gives us life -- our purpose. 

I do what I do because I really enjoy coaching, I am passionate about helping and I love being a little part of helping people be better. That is my purpose and IMPACT's core purpose.

After the rewrite, I wrote to our coaches, "I can now breathe..." I wrote that not because I was holding my breath but because the air had lifted off my shoulders and I felt refreshed. 

If the client likes our proposal, it will save them significant money. More importantly, we have stayed true to our purpose and have not been swayed by trying to be everything to everyone in pursuit of the big payout.  We all feel good about that.

And the work will be really fun which is the best test of purpose.

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How do you build a team?

You rely on them. You ask them to help you. It is amazing how much this brings people together. Our IMPACT team has always been great. We get along. We like each other. We help each other.

In the past several weeks we have become closer. Why? We have a common goal. We are working on a project that requires all of our expertise. I knew that I couldn’t tackle this project alone.  I asked the team to help and, true to form, they stepped up. Guess what? Each day we work through this project, we are more of a team than we were the day before. It makes it all worthwhile.

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Steve Jobs Inspired By Communicating From the Inside Out

Simon Sinek has codified how the world’s most inspiring leaders think, act and communicate.  And he concludes that they do exactly the opposite of everyone else.  In his 2010 TED Talk, Sinek draws his Golden Circle to emphasize how inspiring leaders/ companies communicate from the inside out. First why, then how, then what.  “People don’t buy what you do. They buy why you do it”. 

As we collectively mourn the loss of Steve Jobs, Sinek illustrates his code with Apple. Apple believes in challenging the status quo (why they do it); they do it thru beautiful design and easy to use technology (how they do it); they happen to make great computers (what they do).  

Just this morning I was informally coaching a small business owner friend. She was rushing to write a proposal for a very large Canadian company.  Winning this business would be by far, their biggest account to date.  As I listened to her talk about how her partner rushed to create a demo product and crunched the numbers so they could offer a great price ...(what they do), I was struck by how, in rushing to explain what we do and how we do it better than everyone else, we really miss the heart of the matter.

The alternative Sinek offers is to get really grounded in why we do what we do. I would add that gaining a deep understanding of why our prospective client does what he does can be profound.  What beliefs do we have in common?  This is the sweet spot where magic can happen.

I believe that we all need strong champions and challengers in order to live our best life.  This is why I coach leaders.  

Why do you do what you do?  Things will get a whole lot more compelling for you and everyone else if you would take the time to figure it out.

 

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Posted by Lisa Chandler on October 7, 2011

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One at a time? Isn’t that pretty time consuming?

I suggested in my last blog that you focus on moving the middle group when it comes to change. Don’t focus on the people who already do what you want, don’t focus on those who will never do what you want. Focus on the middle – those who want to change and either don’t know how, are lacking confidence or both. Moving each and every one of those people can creat significant change.

How do you move the middle? One person at a time! To move the middle, capture each person's heart and mind. As each individual comes onside, others  follow. It is a lot of work at first but it eventually becomes much easier.  As momentum builds you suddenly have your change. Jim Collins calls this the "fly wheel effect" and it works. There is no short cut.

Don't try the broad brush. I know it is appealing. It seems more efficient to send everyone on a course or issue an edict from above, but be honest, It never really elicits much change.

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on October 3, 2011

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There are 35,000 different personality tests available in North America alone

How do you know if you are using the right one?

Personality tests are a big part of our coaching process.  At the early stage of a new coaching relationship, it's important for individuals to get insights into their strengths and areas of opportunities.  There are many tests out there, however not every tool has the right impact.  One of the tools that we leverage in our coaching practice is The Birkman Method (http://www.birkman.com/birkmanMethod/whatIsTheBirkmanMethod.php).

We recently used it with one of our executive clients.  Through a debrief discussion, we were able to focus on the behaviors that get in the way of him delegating effectively.  By identifying those obstacles and leveraging what he is actually great at, we were able to help him set very specific goals around delegation.  Following a recent meeting with his coach, he was happy to report that he is now delegating more and he is much happier!  Now that's a positive impact!

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Posted by Sophie Tanguay on September 30, 2011

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Moving the Middle

How do you help large groups of people change their behaviors whether it be coaching, selling, or better customer service? 

  • Do you stand up and issue an edict in the form of a new strategy?
  • Do you build it into their goals?
  • Do you change their compensation so they have to make the change in order to make more money?

All those things are what most people do and they have some impact but it is limited. 

A better approach is to "move the middle". When you think about the behavior change you want think about the many people who need to change. They will always break down into three groups:

  • those who already do what you want and already do it well,
  • those who will never do what you want and
  • those who would like to but don't know how or need a little nudge. That last group is the "middle" and it is a big group.

Any work you do on the first group will have limited gain – they are already doing all they can. Work on the second group will be time consuming and is unlikely to bear fruit. If you can move everyone in the middle just a little bit, you can make significant change. Move the middle first – but do it one at a time.

 

Here’s a little reminder of what motivates people from Daniel Pink (hint – not money).

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After the game is no time for feedback

Our son plays hockey. Last week he had a lackluster game. He was tired. He floated around the ice and made no impact. I was ready to provide feedback! My husband, also a hockey player,  turned to me and said, " A great coach once told me, "After the game is not the time for feedback.” I suggest you congratulate him and move on."

Today our son had a great game. I'll do the same, congratulate him and move on.

Sometimes if makes sense wait to give feedback and sometimes it's good not to give feedback. More often than not they already know how they did.

We are always preaching feedback everywhere, at work, at home and at school. Sometimes we just need to let them think about it and decide for themselves how they did. 

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on September 23, 2011

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Nine Things Successful People Do Differently

A very to the point and well researched list of nine things successful people do differently.  I have witnessed the power of goal setting, reducing temptations, and having grit in my own life and in the lives of my clients. Heidi Grant Halvorson is bang on with these nine points. Print them out. Practice them. You will see your “success meter” climb!

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Posted by Lisa Chandler on September 16, 2011

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Selling to Corporates Telesummit

This online 'summit' is a series of 10 free teleseminars being broadcast 2 a day for 5 days from some of the world's leading experts in selling to corporate clients. 

We think many of our clients would be interested in attending, so we thought we'd spread the word some more:

http://www.ianbrodie.com/selltocorporates

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on September 15, 2011

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Seven Signs of Leadership Potential

Here's a very thorough review of yet another new book on Leadership - Why Are We Bad at Picking Good Leaders?  The authors (Jeffrey Cohn and Jay Moran) argue that are seven criteria that prove to be most vital for effective leadership:

  1. Integrity
  2. Empathy
  3. Emotional Intelligence
  4. Vision
  5. Judgement
  6. Courage
  7. Passion

Read the full review from the Globe and Mail.

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Coaching is surging

As reported by CNN Money/Fortune, this article talks about the rise of coaching for executives, and the change in perception from a "last step" measure, to a proactive way to enhance peoples' skills.

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Talent is over rated

 

Read the article but even better read the book. Ignore the Goldman Sacks examples that are out of date. Get into the meat of the book. It is thoughtful and well researched and will change the way you approach work. It will also change the way you look at coaching.

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on September 6, 2011

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When stake holders really matter in your change

In my last blog, I suggested that leaders not ask for input on a change plan when they are not flexible on that change plan. I suggested a "tell, explain, and gain buy-in to how the stake holder can help implement the change" approach. 

Now what if you are the CEO and the stake holder is the Board? Chances are the board gets to veto your decision. If that is your situation -- your stake holder holds veto power -- you need their buy-in. Soooo..... How do you get it?

Do NOT start by building a fancy power point presentation. In my experience many people start here. They feel comfortable when they have a glossy presentation or document ready for presentation. However, glossy presentations rarely get you buy-in. This approach creates an effect similar to my neighbor experience outlined in the last blog. People listen and think about why they don't agree. You have to work hard to get them onside and with this approach, you risk blowing your only shot. 

Instead, start by spending some time on stake holder analysis. Answer four questions:

  1. 1. Who matters most to this decision?
  2. 2. Who has the most influence?
  3. 3. What do these people care most about?
  4. 4. How do these people make decisions?

Once you have the answers, develop a plan. Implement that plan. After all this work, you can start your power point presentation.

 

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on September 6, 2011

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Are you really REALLY listening?

Or are you just talking? A neighbour came to me a few weeks ago to ask my input on an issue that affected both of us. After speaking for several minutes, it became obvious to me that he was less interested in my opinion than he was in convincing me that his opinion was the right one. As you have probably guessed, our opinions on the matter were different.

So now what? I am annoyed. My feeling is "why ask if you have already decided?" I think less of him now than I would have if he had not asked and gone ahead with what he wanted to do. I see him as insensitive and insincere.

All this got me thinking about leadership. (Something I do a lot!) Leaders today understand that the best way to implement any major change is to get buy- in from key stake holders in the decision. 

Here's a little lesson in buy-in courtesy of my neighbour. If you go into a discussion unprepared to change your opinion, you are better off not asking and just going ahead with the decision. When clients ask me about obtaining buy-in around change I usually ask, "Are you OK if they say "No" to your proposed change?" If the answer to that question is "No", then I suggest that they don't ask for opinions on the change. Instead I suggest they tell the stake holder what the change is and why it is important. The leader should ask for the stake holder's support and make it clear that the decision has been made. The leader can obtain input on how the stake holder can help but not on the decision itself. Asking for input when you are not prepared to change your approach reflects poorly on you and creates greater resistance to change. You are better off not asking and going ahead.

One caveat to this..... If the stake holder can quash your decision you need a different approach! If that's the case read my next blog. 

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on August 31, 2011

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Interesting website... all about leadership theories.

I particularly like the the “portable guide to management” and the “portable guide to leadership”. They are short guides that outline all of the major theories on management and leadership. Good, quick reads.

http://theleaderlab.org/leaderlab-papers/

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on August 30, 2011

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You can’t spend too much time setting expectations

I recently employed two different people in the same contract job.

I followed the same orientation process with both young women. I spent a couple of days orienting them to their new job and to their new surroundings. I shadowed them for the first few days making sure I was available for questions and then I let them run with their new roles.

One employee was beyond our expectations. She did everything she was asked and more. If she thought something should be done, she did it. If she had a suggestion, she made it. When her term was over we knew we missed her but it took a few weeks before we realized how much she added. She was the perfect employee for us and honestly I was lucky.

The other employee was also good. She did mostly what she was asked and yet did it well. She didn't do much extra. We had a few issues, nothing major but each time we had to have one of "those" conversations. We liked her and certainly missed her after she left. After all she did her job and she was a lovely young girl.  She made less of an impact. I was not as lucky.

Our third contract employee is coming next week. I have learned from the first two the importance of setting expectations both on the expected job duties and on how we want the nature of employment relationship to be. You cannot leave this to chance. When you do, it forces many more negative conversations then are necessary and those conversations are not fun for either party. 

This year I have added to my orientation process. I have put my expectations clearly in writing.(People who know me will be shocked by the detail. I hate process and detail. So when I take the time to be detailed, it is because I think it is really important!)

Our new employee will now have a document to refer to when she is unsure.  I will also have something to refer back to so there is no confusion if we need to have a tough conversation. 

(By the way, I will not just hand her the document. We will sit down over a leisurely coffee and go through it together discussing details and clarifying all points.)

I used my experiences from the first two contract positions to build this written document. I have been refining it over the past week or so. I am happy that is clear on duties and on the nature of the relationship. The nature of the relationship is important because it tells her things like "we like initiative" or "we expect you to become part of our team". Understanding both the duties and the nature of the relationship helps her better understand how to approach her role. 

I will let you know how it goes but I am convinced that spending the extra time on writing out my expectations will mean that our third contract employee will start more effectively than she would have without the extra work. I am determined to rely less on luck this time. I think she will also appreciate the clarity. After all, new jobs are tough sometimes.

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Here's a good article on positive thinking.

It occurs to me that when people are asked to think about their “envisioned future state”, it is just as important for them to make sure they are also noticing the potential barriers and thinking through the steps to success.

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on August 5, 2011

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Let's face it. There are very few people who relish washing dishes. Our kids certainly don't enjoy it and make it known to me on a regular basis. So what do I say to them? "Guys I know washing dishes is a drag. I don't really like it either. We have to do it so let's do our best and get it finished so we can do other things." They grudgingly wash away.

My point? In a perfect world we would only delegate the really stretching and interesting work but sometimes you just have to "do the dishes." When you are delegating mundane work, acknowledge that fact and encourage your staff to do their best. Tell them it just has to be done and that you've been there. It makes it easier.

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Great leaders ask pointed questions every opportunity they get. Great leaders ask pointed questions all day and in every interaction. Why? So they know what is really going on. So they know who is good. They know what is working. They know what is not. They also find out what's next.

Asking really good questions is a rare skill. If you lead a group of people, I challenge you to consider if you are asking really good questions to a variety of people or if you are listening to the opinions of a select few. In my experience, it is very easy for senior people to slip into the "safe zone" of listening only to a select number of people. You'll be better if you make it a practice to ask really good questions of many different people in many different circumstances.

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HR people seem to be too busy all the time

I don't work with a lot of HR people but I do work with a few. It seems to me that all of the HR people I work with share one common trait. They are too busy. HR people are most likely to cancel meetings, most likely to have voice messages that say they are in all day meetings and most likely to have trouble getting back to you for several days. This trend is universal in every organization we work with.

So what? Maybe it means nothing but as a former HR person, I find the trend interesting. Either HR teams are understaffed or working on too many things or both. It feels like a function that needs a refocus. Everyone needs time to reflect, answer calls and emails and have lunch -- particularly those in HR. How can you help others when you have no time to reflect yourself?

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Is it harder for direct and outgoing women?

Yes it is. I was talking to a client yesterday and she was complaining that men who state their point of view in a clear direct way are admired yet women who do the same are seen as pushy. You know what? She’s right. There have been lots of studies that prove this out. I can tell you from my own coaching experience that it is in fact true.

Now what? Not much. There is not much women can do about this except notice it and modify their behavior where necessary. I hope the men who read this will do the same. Sometimes things are just not fair and we learn to accept and "deal".

Here's a truly excellent article on this topic.

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How do we create more meaning in the workplace?

Step one is to make sure we aren’t choking the meaning that is already there. This sounds simple yet it takes a concerted effort. Watch how experiments with adults building Lego provides insight into compensation, motivation and meaning in work.

Dan Ariely, behavioural economist and author of The Upside of Irrationality, is a gem for curious people managers who are hungry to learn. 

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Make all feedback about you.

People too often make feedback about the other person. "You need to be a better communicator." "You need to improve your ability to coach your staff."

It much more powerful to make the feedback about you rather than the other person. "I really like to be kept in the loop. My preference is to be updated weekly on this project. Will that work for you?". "People management is really important to me. I would like you to make sure that you complete all of your performance reviews in person and on schedule. Can you commit to that?"

Sound better? Of course it does. It is not that the first examples are wrong they are just not as effective as the second examples above. If you want people to listen, make it about you most of the time.

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Coaching doesn’t guarantee that a person will be “fixed”

It happens often, someone hears I am coaching someone and then proceeds to tell me all the things that are wrong with that person. Let me be clear, I don’t tell others who I coach, often it is the coachee who mentions it to others. Once people hear that someone is being coached, their expectations of change are heightened. They expect all faults to be “fixed”.
 
That is not the purpose of coaching – to create perfect people. The purpose of coaching is to help someone meet their personal objectives which can range anywhere from getting to promoted, to improving their business development or becoming a better delegator. Good coaching is focused. Good coaching will not fix all flaws. Nor should it – wouldn’t life be boring if we could ‘fix “ people?

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Everyone is interested in diversity lately

Why? Because the economy has turned around. When business is slow we lay people off and hold off promoting people.  Indications are that this has disadvantaged our diverse (women, minorities) groups more. I have seen this as more and more of my clients have asked me about the “diversity issue” in recent weeks. I just read a recent report from PAR (Project for Attorney Retention in DC) that seems to confirm that we have taken a step backward.

“San Francisco, June 3, 2011 – There is not a lot to celebrate when it comes to the gender composition of the new partner classes.  According to a survey of the new partner class of 2011 released by the Project for Attorney Retention (PAR), law firms slid two percentage points in promotions of their women attorneys since last year, 32% compared to 34% in 2010.”  http://attorneyretention.org/

When the economy improves, we get back on track with our diversity initiatives so this year many organizations have a lot of catching up to do.  How do they catch-up? Give an extra “leg up” to your diverse groups by coaching them as individuals and in teams. Figure out what these people need to do to be promoted and give them a coach to help them close that gap. Then take a leap of faith and put them in the more senior job. The coach can help them be successful even if they have a few gaps. There are few better uses of coaching.
 
 

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on June 20, 2011

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People are not Cogs

The “peoply stuff” drives growth (as in Google, Facebook and Apple). It is not an “add-on”. Time to make it core. We are, after all, a service economy.

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My husband told me the other day that I was being negative a lot lately. I, of course, argued with him. "I am not. I am just stating facts." He argued back. You know how it goes.

I left the argument having made my points but then I thought about it. "He's right. A lot of little things are bugging me lately." Why? Probably because I am really busy and my back hurts all the time. But that doesn't really matter. What matters is that it is no fun being negative. So I stopped.

It is that easy. Every time I thought about the monster house going up next door, I instead thought, "It doesn't matter. It will raise property values." Every time I thought I would lose it when our children left clothes and hockey cards on the floor, I instead took a deep breath and politely took one of them by the hand and took them back to the scene of the crime and helped them fix it. Every time I started to get annoyed at our banker sending me emails asking me to call him, I instead took a deep breath and sent him back an email telling him when I would be available for a call.

The point? I feel better. I am no longer negative. All I had to do was focus on it.

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Spring is a good time to reflect on all things new. New growth. New challenges. New issues. New people.

It’s also a good time to change things up. Over the course of the past few months we have been doing some things differently. We’ve been privileged to partner with a number of clients to launch new approaches to coaching. We thought we’d share some of those stories with you.

There’s a fresh way to develop high potentials.

Recently Claire, supported by Wendi and Sophie, worked with one client to design and deliver a customized high potential program— “a Shadow Senior Management Team”— that includes a combination of peer coaching and one-on-one coaching. Now, five months into the program, we’ve seen incredible growth in both the individuals and the group. They’ve developed tremendous comfort with one another and with their IMPACT coaches. They’ve developed new strategic skills, raised their professional profiles, and have become more confident leaders. They are acting like a senior management team.  They are a source of inspiration to us as well as a reminder of how well peer coaching can work!

Don’t just test. Onboard effectively.

You can use personality tests to help you hire and onboard employees effectively. Sophie is a specialist in the Birkman Method. She worked closely with a client to help choose the right new hire for that client. Sophie also met with the client and her new hire and used the Birkman to have a practical dialogue around how they can best work together starting from day one. Both the client and the new hire have reported that the experience was rewarding, practical and game- changing for them.

Speaking of new things, we’re excited to launch the new and improved IMPACT website. We’ve made simple changes to the site to keep it fresh, make it even more user-friendly and include exciting new information and resources.

We’ve poled our coaches for their best tidbits of advice and we’ve begun to post them on Twitter. To receive our tips, follow us on twitter:www.twitter.com/impactcoach.

And in the spirit of the season of new growth, if you like our work, please tell your friends and colleagues.

Happy spring. 

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A 6 minute video (ish) that describes the marshmallow experiment. It promotes the idea of using a prototype approach to teamwork and design (build it, get feedback, refine, build again…). I think teams can take the same approach to building a meeting format that works for them. Try it, see if it works, refine it, and try again.

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You don’t really until you do it. But there is a quick and relatively simple way to tell. Find out what a “normal day” looks like. Seek out people in the profession you want to work in and ask the question, “When you come in to work each day what do you normally spend your time doing? What does a typical day look like?” Once you have the answer to this question. Ask yourself, “Is this the kind of thing I want to do every day for the rest of my working career?” If not, keep searching for your new career.

I will give you a very personal example. Many years ago, thought I would like a career change and that I would like to become an interior designer. I love interior design and could spend hours perusing decor magazines and talking about design. I love looking at fabric swatches and touring great architecture. I mentioned this possible career change to some friends and low and behold, they asked me to help them with their design challenges. Here’s the hitch. While I think I did a pretty good job, I didn’t love the process. I learned that designers really need to love shopping. I don’t. I couldn’t imagine spending all my days driving around looking in shops.

Design for me continues to be a “passionate hobby” but will not be my chosen career. I much prefer coaching.

 

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Make sure your career fits your desired lifestyle

A client of mine should be an equestrian. He loves horses. He loves being outdoors. He is instead, a successful lawyer. Has he “settled” do you think?

We recently conducted a Birkman test on him. The Birkman indicated that he indeed would love being a equestrian. We joked about this—quitting and riding horses for a living. Here’s what he said, “Sandra, you know I would love to be in a barn with horses every day. There is only one small hitch. I also really like having a cottage in Muskoka and I love going on nice trips. So riding will always be a passionate hobby.”

I love this concept of “passionate hobby”. I often tell our kids, figure out what you love and do it for a living. The fact is you can and do love doing several things. My client also loves “lawyering.” He loves helping clients solve problems. Being a lawyer allows him to live the lifestyle he wants and allows him to pursue riding. When thinking about a career change remember there is no simple answer. You should choose something that you love that supports the lifestyle you want to live. You can still pursue a passionate hobby on the side.

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on May 23, 2011

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Help Support Your Community and Clean Out Your Closets

We need your help!


Join the Bay Street Suit Challenge as a sponsor and help members of your organization clean out your closets for a good cause!
 
The Bay Street Suit Challenge will kick off again on May 16, 2010. I strongly encourage your firm to join us in this worthwhile event which will run from May 16, 2010 to June 3, 2010.

Registration forms and logos required, please, by Friday, May 6th.

In support of the three “Rs” - Recycle, Reduce and Re-use - this is an excellent opportunity to allow for persons in need to re-use gently used business attire. Dress For Success needs “gently” used business clothing, accessories and shoes. The clothing that is donated should be clean and appropriate for an office environment. Please help to make this year’s clothing drive a success. Just a few articles of clothing can go a long way.

Sponsorship Levels:
Title Sponsor: SOLD - KPMG
Silk Suit $10,000
Wool Suit $5,000
Cotton Suit $2,500

Or if your firm is small, please help at the:
“Participant Level” $500 (helps to defer the adminstrative costs associated with handling and sorting donated business attire)

Confirmed sponsors include: Gowlings, RBC Capital Markets, BMO Capital Markets, Desjardins Capital Markets, Stifel Nicolaus Weisel, Mercer & Direct Engergy

If you’re interested in becoming a sponsor, download the sponsorship kit and registration form for participants.

About Dress for Success Toronto

Dress for Success Toronto is a registered Canadian Charity that changes the lives of Canadians and New Canadians by providing low income individuals with the necessary professional attire and career development tools they need to achieve success. Our unique wardrobe service helps clients look impressive, feel confident, and find employment.

Founded in 2000 by Jessica Roelink, the organization is volunteer-driven, utilizing the skills of many talented people. Since its inception, Dress for Success Toronto has outfitted over 8,000+ clients with over 50,000 professional garments and accessories.

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The Less You Say, The More They Will Hear

People often tell me that they hate giving feedback. I ask why. They say, “I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.” We discuss it and they of course agree that it is worse to keep someone in the dark about their performance than it is to just tell them.

The discussion turns then to “how” to tell them. I usually say “The less you say, the more they will hear.” We work to craft a very specific message. It usually outlines the behaviors that are a problem and the impact of the behaviors. And that is it! No further embellishment. Keep it short and focused and the person gets the message. If they get the message, they can act on it. Nothing kinder then that.

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A Bevy of Strategic Planning Resources

In preparation for an upcoming client workshop on Strategic Planning, I put together a list of resources that I thought would be useful to get them going.  Then I thought: why not share this with everyone?

 

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Keep that vacation feeling… For at least another week.

Everyone is going on or coming back from vacation this time of year. One of our clients just came back from a cruise and said to me, “I have one simple objective in my first week back. I am relaxed now. My perspective is great. I am working to keep this feeling for one extra week.” Once he does that, he plans to extend that feeling week by week right up until the next vacation. With focus he can do it. My challenge to you is to do the same. Next vacation extend that “vacation feeling” for one more week. And then do it again.

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Overfunctioning creates underfunctioning.

What is “overfunctioning”? I looked it up and came up with nothing in the dictionary. It is not an official word. Even though it is not a word,  is a word I use a lot.

So here is my definition of “overfunctioning”. It means doing more for another person than they actually need. It means doing so much that the other person really doesn’t have to do anything. If someone asks you for help and you do more than help, you actually do that work then you are overfunctioning.

What is wrong with this? In the short run and in certain situations it isn’t too harmful. Let’s face it, overfunctioners make great employees. They are thorough, reliable, and conscientious. The work of an overfunctioner is usually impeccable.

In the long run, there is a lot wrong with overfunctioning. Eventually the overfunctioner gets tired and frustrated and feels under appreciated. By their very nature, overfunctioners get very little recognition for their toil. Even more importantly overfunctioners create underfunctioners. Underfunctioners are people who learn to do less. Why would an underfunctioner do more when they can rely on the overfunctioner to do it for them? Underfunctioners regress and become less effective and less engaged. They lose their skills. Everyone loses.

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If you accept imperfection in yourself, you can accept it in others.

Several years ago I worked with a client who set very high standards for his people. Anyone who didn’t meet his standards heard from him. If his staff sent out work that was below his expectations, he would bring them into his office and itemize all that was wrong with their work. People would float into his office with a question and if the question wasn’t well thought out, he would interrupt and say, “You clearly haven’t done your homework. Come back and ask me again when you have.” If people took too long to explain their position he would lean back in his chair, cross his arms and sigh loudly. Needless to say, some people were frightened of him.  Many of you may know someone like this and might wonder where this comes from. Here’s what I learned about him and about many others just like him.
 
He was so hard on others because he was very hard on himself. You can’t always see this but trust me – it is often the case. If this client made a mistake, he would agonize about it for days.  Thinking things like, “How could I be so stupid to as missed that? Why wasn’t I better prepared? Why aren’t I more detailed?” His staff would likely have been quite surprised to know that.
 
In our coaching relationship, I helped him to be nicer to himself. He learned to be more comfortable with his own imperfection and he learned to stop beating himself up. Then the miracle happened, he allowed everyone some imperfection and  he started to be nicer to his team. People were no longer afraid.

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March 8th is the 100 year anniversary of International Women’s Day. Donate $100 for 100 years.

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Many of you know that I have been a supporter of Dress for Success (DfS) Toronto and recently been appointed Chair of the board. DfS Toronto will be joining a world-wide celebration as part of International Women’s Day (IWD).

Celebrated annually on March 8th and globally recognized as a day of celebration of women’s achievements politically, economically and socially, it will be a day to raise visibility and raise funds for disadvantaged women – a powerful new way to put the spotlight on the economic independence of low income women.  The first International Women’s Day event was in 1911 and 2011 marks the Global Centenary Year.
 
Please help us celebrate by matching the 100th Anniversary of International Women’s day with a $100 gift.  Your donation will enable a woman to make the transition to empowerment and professional success.  Here is just one example of how your gift can make a difference:

”I just got a job with St. Joseph’s (hospital) as a Medical Laboratory Technologist and I’d like to thank Dress for Success Toronto for providing me with nice attire for the interview. I appreciate all your help in choosing me a dress that would look professional on me.”
- Fatima, Feb. 7, 2011

A gift to support Dress for Success Toronto in honour of the Centenary Celebrations of IWD is an investment in women, equality and your community. I will be making my own donation. Please join me by making yours. Gifts of any amount are gratefully accepted!  Donations can be made on-line at:
 
http://www.canadahelps.org/CharityProfilePage.aspx?CharityID=s64513

Make every day International Women’s Day!
 
We thank you for your support.   
 
Sandra
Chair, Dress for Success Toronto  and Founder of IMPACT consulting. 

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Here’s why there aren’t more women leaders in tech, and the world

Sheryl Sandberg nails the issues for women very simply and puts the control back in our hands. We can make our own difference.

Here’s the full article.

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Is a coach a psychiatrist?

As  people start to work with me, one of the questions I get asked is, “Do I have to lie on a couch?” For most people this is tongue in cheek but for some, it is a question about how coaching really works. Here’s what to expect from a good coach:

  1. You start with your objectives. You decide what you want to accomplish by working with the coach and most coaching conversations will be about progress against those objectives.
  2. You and the coach collect some data. Coaches are better when they have some data beyond your own impressions. Data usually includes personality tests (like Myers Briggs), and other people’s impression of how you are doing (particularly your boss’ but also the opinions of others around you who are interested in your development).
  3. Coaching conversations need to happen regularly (usually about every two weeks). Long lags between conversations tends to cause conversations to wander into theory and away from practicality.
  4. Coaches are more like sports coaches than psychiatrists or psychologists. A coach is trained to help you with becoming better at what you do and not necessarily at “getting deeply into your head” (unless the coaches are also trained as psychologists or psychiatrists).
  5. Coaching conversations are mostly practical and tactical. You will be doing most of the talking. The coach will be questioning and listening. Each coaching conversation focuses on important things that just happened and important things that are about to happen. You and the coach examine these things together, pull out the lessons and plan for the next interaction or event.
  6. Coaching relationships have an end. At the end, you and the coach will discuss both how well you met your coaching objectives and how well the coaching experience suited your needs. You agree on a go forward plan that may or may not include the coach.

If you find your coaching conversations are not effective, you may need another coach or be better served by a psychiatrist or psychologist. Most importantly, your time is valuable, find someone who really helps you.

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on January 28, 2011

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Blah, blah, blah

Leadership communications -- blah, blah, blah! That's how most people experience most leadership communications. Most are long winded email updates written by someone other than the leader or quarterly presentations on fancy Powerpoint slides (also written by someone other than the leader).

The subject matter of these communications is usually the organization's strategy. The strategy often comes off as sounding like platitudes. People feel preached at, bored or leave wondering what their role is. So how can you be different?

First, leadership is personal. People want to know what you really believe in and they want to hear that in your own words. All leadership communications are an opportunity to engage people in your personal vision. So, write it yourself. Write your own speeches. Write your own email updates. Use your communications people to guide you but don't let them write for you.

Second, communicate often. More often than you think you should. People aren't motivated by 4 communications a year. To motivate people you need to build relationships. To build relationships, you need to invest time. So plan to communicate every couple of weeks, using many different formats (emails, blogs, meetings, hallway chats). I find blogs to be one of the most effective tools for this. Blogs are short. Blogs are personal. Blogs are frequent. More leaders should blog.

Third, be real and be interactive (another reason blogs work). Share both your successes and your challenges. Ask questions of your people. Every leader has something that is keeping them up at night. Ask about that thing that keeps you up at night. Get your people's opinion and help them see the complexity of the issue. Have a real dialogue with your people.

Finally, sit at their desk. Not literally but figuratively. See yourself sitting at the desk of one of the people you are talking to. Ask yourself, "What do I need this person to do differently tomorrow? What do they care most about each and every day?' If you don't know the answers, ask. Make sure every communication closes with the answer to one of these two questions.

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Posted by Claire Carver-Dias on January 20, 2011

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The Knowledgeable Client

Business person looking in the mirror.I’ve finished up more than one coaching meeting with the thought, “This client may not need me. He already knows what to do.” Sometimes I’ve agonized over how I can add more value for those clients who just seem to have spectacular self-awareness and the ability to make great decisions. I make it a point to ask my clients whether they are getting what they need from me, yet I somehow doubted it when these seemingly totally “together” clients answered yes.

One day, one client brought all my agonizing to a halt when she said, “You know what, you’re a great mirror for me.”  I was reminded that every client is different. Every client has different needs, and I can add value in different ways for different clients.  There are really talented leaders out there who don’t need me to give advice. Rather, what they appreciate about their coaching sessions is the opportunity to talk things though confidentially, have me listen and challenge them. Sometimes the coach can be a sounding board. Sometimes devil’s advocate. Sometimes the trusted adviser. 

Sometimes a mirror.

If you have a knowledgeable client, remember: they haven’t hired you because you are smarter than they are or because you know more about the subject matter that you are consulting on. They have hired you to help them. Don’t worry about yourself and what value you are bringing. Focus on them and give them what they need even if it feels uncomfortable.

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Posted by Sandra Oliver on January 17, 2011

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