Is it harder for direct and outgoing women?
Yes it is. I was talking to a client yesterday and she was complaining that men who state their point of view in a clear direct way are admired yet women who do the same are seen as pushy. You know what? She’s right. There have been lots of studies that prove this out. I can tell you from my own coaching experience that it is in fact true.
Now what? Not much. There is not much women can do about this except notice it and modify their behavior where necessary. I hope the men who read this will do the same. Sometimes things are just not fair and we learn to accept and "deal".
Here's a truly excellent article on this topic.
Posted by Sandra Oliver on July 11, 2011
Communications, Leadership, Women Leaders, Personal Effectiveness
